BeThatHealingGirl Podcast
Listen up Girlies!! Healing isn’t just a (hot girl) walk in the park, it’s a damn journey. The BeThatHealingGirl Podcast is all about busting old school dating myths, breaking down our childhood traumas, unlearning our bad habits and healing your way to your DREAM LIFE! Let’s keep it real and begin to heal because honestly… eff that guy not texting you back, stop worrying about being liked, it’s time to let go of anxious attachment behaviors, start getting comfortable with being vulnerable and know your damn worth! So stop wishing you were her, join the journey and BE that healing girl.
Episodes

Aug 20, 2024
Aug 20, 2024
16 min
In this episode, I’m breaking down the messy interplay between being hyper-independent and feeling anxious in relationships. We’ll talk about why this often leads to feeling disconnected, even when you're a total boss in every other area of your life.
Plus, I’ll share some tips to help you navigate these tricky waters, so you can shift from surface-level interactions to the meaningful relationships you truly deserve. Let’s unpack this together! You’re not alone in this journey, and I’m here to help you find that sweet spot between independence and connection.
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Aug 13, 2024
Aug 13, 2024
13 min
Today we’re diving deep into the juicy world of relationship boundaries and expectations. This topic is a total game-changer because let’s be real—boundaries are the backbone of any healthy relationship. If you’ve ever felt like you’re giving your all but getting nothing in return, or if you’re holding back from addressing those little irks that hurt your feelings—this episode is for YOU!
We’ll explore my personal journey from boundary-less chaos to rock-solid peace, and I’ll share why surrounding yourself with boundary queens is the secret to finding your own strength.
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Aug 6, 2024
Aug 6, 2024
14 min
Today, we’re getting into a juicy topic that we all know too well—needing constant reassurance in our relationships. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering if you’re the drama queen (spoiler alert: we all have our moments!), or if you’re with a good person who’s just not serving the vibe you crave, then baby, you’re in the right place! This episode is for my fierce overachievers and recovering perfectionists who can nail it at work but find themselves tripping up in love.
You’re not alone in this journey, and we’re here to lift each other up and find that inner glow!
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Jul 30, 2024
Jul 30, 2024
15 min
Hey babes! This week, we’re diving deep into how to fix overthinking in relationships. It's a special episode because my husband and I are celebrating our five-year anniversary! Whether you’re an anxious girly wondering if he still loves you or if he’s going to leave, this episode is for YOU.
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Jul 23, 2024
Jul 23, 2024
12 min
Join our free community for exclusive courses, live trainings, and a squad of like-minded women supporting each other through this wild ride.
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Jul 16, 2024
Jul 16, 2024
13 min
Hey Girlies, this week we’re diving deep into the communication habits that are hurting your attachment style. If you’re an anxious girly who gets stressed when they don’t text back, this episode is a must-listen! In today’s episode we'll discuss why focusing on the quantity of texts is hurting your relationship, how to recognize and prioritize quality communication and personal stories and tips to shift your mindset from anxiety to trust.
So, here’s the deal: if you’re someone who’s constantly checking your phone, stressing over why they haven’t texted “good morning” or “goodnight,” this episode is going to be your game-changer. We’re talking about why this obsession with text frequency is damaging your relationship and what you can do about it.
And if you’re ready to level up your relationship game, I’ve got some exciting news! I have a few 1-on-1 client spots opening up. If you’re committed and ready for a transformation, hit the link below to apply. Let’s work together to create the love life you deserve!
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Jul 9, 2024
Jul 9, 2024
19 min
In Today's episode we're hitting "Trigger City" and talking about how to handle it when your anxious attachment goes haywire. We're diving deep into overthinking, over-apologizing, and those full-on freak-outs. I'll share my top tips on how to respond instead of react and how to calm your mind and body when those triggers hit. Get ready to Identify and understand your triggers and Cultivate that all-important observational awareness.
Whether you're a corporate powerhouse, a savvy entrepreneur, or an academic superstar, I'm here to help you thrive not just in your career but in your relationships too. And guess what? The Healing Girl Gang is where it’s at! J
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Jul 2, 2024
Jul 2, 2024
17 min
Hey Girlies! This week, we're tackling one of the sneakiest triggers for overthinking in relationships: LONELINESS. If you're an anxious girly constantly replaying past convos and overanalyzing texts, this episode is for YOU! In today’s episode we're talking about how loneliness fuels relationship anxiety and anxious attachment, the difference between social and emotional loneliness and personal stories and tips to overcome these sneaky triggers
P.s. I’m launching a FREE community where you can get exclusive access to trainings, courses, and even more support from me. Click here to join and help shape this amazing space!!
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Jun 25, 2024
Jun 25, 2024
16 min
Today’s episode is ALL about stopping that pesky overthinking in your relationships. We'll tackle how to tell if you’re spiraling or actually thinking critically, recognizing when your nervous system is in freak-out mode and tips to go from overthinking to chill and confident vibes.
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Jun 18, 2024
Jun 18, 2024
13 min
This week's episode is all about self-sabotage. Yep, been there, sabotaged that—especially with those sweet, secure types who just wanted to love us. If you've been wondering why things seem to implode just when they're getting good, you're not alone, and this episode is here to unpack all of that mess with you. We're talking about the signs, the whys, and how to finally stop self-sabotaging our love lives.
Plus, I'm sharing some super personal stories and client experiences that'll make you say, "Omg, that's totally me!" So if you're ready to kick those bad habits and start owning your love story, let's get into it!
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