BeThatHealingGirl Podcast

Why Acting "Unbothered" Isn't Working With Anxious Attachment

In this episode I’m breaking down why pretending you’re totally fine when you’re actually spiraling inside is keeping you stuck. 🚨Spoiler Alert: Being unbothered isn’t an act. It’s a practice. If you’re tired of filling your calendar, holding in your feelings, and THEN word-vomiting because you can’t hold it in anymore… this episode is for you, honey.
We’ll talk: ✨ Why busying yourself isn’t the answer, how to stop performing and start self-revealing (healthily) and The key to feeling genuinely secure in yourself and your relationship.
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Anxious Meets Avoidant: How We Overcame the Fear Cycle in Our Relationship (Part 2 with Craig!)

💖 This is Part 2 of my special series with none other than my husband, Craig! In this episode, we’re diving deep into the patterns that defined the early days of our relationship—hello, anxious and avoidant attachment styles—and how we worked through them to create the connection we have today. We get super real about the miscommunications, the fears, and yes, even the moments we weren’t sure we’d make it.
Whether you're in the trenches of an anxious-avoidant dynamic or just trying to build a healthier connection, there’s so much here for you! 🎙️ Don’t forget to subscribe, rate and review this episode if it resonates! 
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Bday Special! Craig Gets his Podcast Cherry Popped [Part 1]

🚨 SPECIAL EPISODE ALERT! 🚨 This week on BeThatHealingGirl, I’m joined by none other than… my husband, Craig! 💍✨ We’re pulling back the curtain on our relationship and diving into everything from attachment styles (anxious vs. avoidant anyone? 👀), to the hilarity of fighting over In-N-Out Burger, to how fear vs. love plays a major role in relationships. Spoiler: We don’t hold back.
🫣 Craig shares his journey as “an evolving man,” growing up in a conservative family, navigating emotional vulnerability, and—let’s be real—trying to figure out what I actually do for a living (shoutout to my “girlies” 🫶). This is the real, raw, and sometimes ridiculous side of our relationship. Whether you’re navigating attachment struggles or just want a peek into how two VERY different people make it work, this episode is for you.
Bonus: There’s a Part 2 coming! 😏 💌 Head to Youtube (link below) to watch this full episode and let us know your favorite moment or the part that hit home for you in the comments! 
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Why the Reassurance Isn't Working

So you asked for the reassurance. You got it. And... you’re still spiraling. WTF, right? 🤯 This week, we’re getting into why that little “everything’s fine” doesn’t actually hit the way you hoped it would—and why it never will (spoiler: it’s not about them, bb, it’s about YOU). 💅
We’re unpacking the real tea on why reassurance is just a Band-Aid for what’s actually going on underneath—and how to break free from the cycle for good. If you’re tired of feeling like an emotional rollercoaster every time you send a “just checking in” text, or not so jokingly ask "do you still love me?" this episode is for you 💕 
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The Do's and Don'ts to Stop Overthinking

Ever sent a 3-page text knowing you shouldn’t? Or started a fight just because you couldn’t scratch that itch? Yep, we’re going there. If overthinking has you spiraling like Alice down the rabbit hole (been there!), this episode is for you.
We’re diving deep into the dos and don’ts of breaking free from the overthinking cycle so you can step back from the mental cliff and find peace. I’ll be breaking down exactly what’s not helping you stop overthinking (hello, distractions, numbing, and Pink Elephant syndrome 🐘) and what you can actually do to calm your anxious mind and take control.
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Staying Connected During Distant Moments

Does a little distance feel like a red alert to you? Whether it's a delayed text, a faraway look, or physical distance (hello, long-distance relationships!), this episode dives into the heart of how to stay connected even when your mind is spiraling.
With the holidays around the corner, distance—emotional or physical—might hit a little differently, but Clare is here to help you navigate it! Let's do this, bb!
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Healing Anxious Attachment: Client Transformation with Athena

In this very special episode, we’re welcoming our first guest ever to the podcast, and I couldn’t be more excited! Today, I’m joined by Athena, a former client who went ALL IN on her healing journey. We’re diving deep into her incredible transformation and how she moved from anxiety, overthinking, and self-doubt to self-regulation and confidence in her relationships and life.
If you’re out here doing all the “right” things—therapy, self-help books, even hot girl walks—but still feel stuck, this episode is for YOU. Athena’s story shows what’s possible when you commit to the inner work and learn to hold yourself in challenging moments. 💖
Get ready to hear some real, relatable healing talk and see what it really looks like when you dig deep and embrace the work.
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How to Heal the Root of Anxious Attachment

This week, we’re diving deep into a HUGE topic—how to heal the root of anxious attachment. If you’ve been doing all the things—therapy, hot girl walks, self-help books—and you’re still feeling stuck in the same patterns, this episode is for you. In this episode, I’m breaking down: Why surface-level fixes might not be enough to heal your relationship anxiety, How to go beyond “symptom solving” and actually get to the root of your anxious attachment and The key interplay between mind, body, and spirit that’s crucial for true healing.
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Healing Your Fear of Abandonment

If you’re constantly scanning for signs that someone’s about to up and leave, even when there’s no reason to worry, this episode is for you. We’re talking about: Why you might feel abandoned even when you logically know your partner isn’t going anywhere, How to face your fear and heal instead of spiraling and I’m sharing my personal stories, including one of the worst ghosting experiences ever (seriously, it’s bad 😅), and how I learned to face my fear of vulnerability to build a healthier relationship with my now-husband.
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Micro-habits to Help You Heal Your Anxious Attachment FASTER

If you’re a girlie who’s out here doing ALL the things—hot girl walks, therapy, reading every self-help book—yet still find yourself obsessing over why he hasn’t texted back (or waiting for the other shoe to drop), then THIS episode is for you! 
We’re diving into simple micro-habits you can start adding to your routine to speed up your healing process and break those anxious attachment patterns. These small, intentional changes are what will help you stop spiraling, find inner peace, and build self-trust without waiting for external validation. 
🎧 Whether you’re deep in the healing process or just starting, these tips will help you feel more secure in your relationships (and, most importantly, in yourself!).
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